1. Reading is reported to be “on grade level,” which is confusing since you see your child struggle with reading and writing at home.
Reading tests vary greatly from school to school and may not show the whole picture of your child’s skills. Children with dyslexia, including those with stealth dyslexia, often develop coping strategies to read passages accurately. These can include guessing words from context or using a strong vocabulary. These skills can mask their difficulties until 3rd or 4th grade when decoding problems become more obvious.
2. Your child’s strengths might make them “slip through the cracks.”
Children with dyslexia often make up for their weaknesses with strengths like a strong vocabulary and high emotional intelligence. They may be bright or even gifted, which can cause inconsistencies in their school performance. This makes it hard for parents and teachers to identify the root cause of their literacy struggles. Teachers may not be well-trained to recognize learning differences.
3. You see your child struggling at home, despite good reports from school.
As a parent, you might see more than what the school reports. Your child might manage well at school but come home exhausted and frustrated. They might express feelings of not being as smart as their peers. Homework can become a daily battle, with your child struggling to complete assignments they should understand. You might see increased anxiety and avoidance of reading, writing, and homework.
4. The school dismisses the signs of dyslexia you are seeing.
Public schools are not required to test for dyslexia with federal funds. Instead, they test for eligibility for special education services, which is not the same as diagnostic testing. Due to limited training and support, school staff may miss the signs of dyslexia. Even if they recognize the signs, they often lack the resources to provide individualized dyslexia help.
5. Your child is given another label, such as “behavioral difficulties.”
Children with dyslexia may show behaviors like immaturity, being the “class clown,” or causing trouble. They may also have challenges with organization that make them seem disorganized or inattentive. Teachers might assume that because your child does well in other areas, their literacy struggles are due to a lack of effort, leading to labels like “lazy.”
Why Teachers and Schools Miss the Signs
Teachers may not realize dyslexia is the root of these problems, especially if your child does well on graded assignments. They might not see a problem at all.
Don’t let a good report card override your instinct if you see other symptoms such as:
Substituting words that make sense in the sentence when reading aloud.
Omitting or changing sounds in words for reading or spelling.
Doing well on spelling tests but struggling to spell those words in writing assignments.
It’s important to have your child assessed and treated early. This will give you and your child a clear path to overcome literacy struggles and achieve school success.
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